Falling in Love with Books Again

In the last few weeks I have started falling in love with books again. Specifically, children's literature. In the past few weeks I've read around 15 books, each one captivating me in a way unique to that story. 

But the book I read yesterday? Captivated me in a way only a few books ever have. Probably because I am 1001% convinced the main character in the story is actually me in another life. 

This book the last book in a series of four. The series itself is called The Books of Bayern. 



Kara got me started on Shannon Hale's books about two weeks ago, starting with the Princess Academy books as well as The Book of a Thousand Days.

These aren't books that I would have picked up and read on my own...If I would have seen them in the store I would have just passed right over them. But when Kara gives me books, I typically trust her judgement and read them. And I loved all 3 of those books.

But anyways. Back to the Books of Bayern.

I loved each and every one of these books. The Goose Girl captivated me and I read the entire thing in one sitting. Enna Burning terrified me at first and I had to put it down for a while, but once I got over it and picked it back up I loved it. River Secrets is also good and would be a great book for any boy who struggles to fit in. But Forest Born. Forest Born was my favorite.

Forest Born is about a young girl (15) named Rin who you meet briefly in the other 3 books, but this is her story.

Rin has lived her entire life in someone else's shadow. She is quiet, afraid to speak, afraid of losing love, and so she stays quiet and helps wherever she is needed. She takes care of her older siblings' children (there's 23) and does so without ever being thanked or acknowledged. Rin is the glue that holds her family together.

Then one day, Rin falls apart. She's lost, confused, and scared. Her one comfort is the woods where she is able to calm down and reevaluate what's going on. But one day, the trees stop bringing comfort and Rin has nowhere to turn. She ends up leaving her family to go to the city, where she ends up working in the palace.

She desperately wants to earn the love and acceptance of the queen, a kind, gentle, and incredibly wise woman, and Rin does everything she can to try to earn the queen's love and acceptance. She also wants to get close with the queen's two best friends, because there is something so unique about their friendship and love that Rin is naturally drawn to it. In the process, she becomes the caretaker for the queen's two year old little boy who loves her dearly. She begins to start to figure out more of who she is and starts to become a little more comfortable in her own skin.

But if Rin figured out who she was right then and there, it wouldn't be a very good story. When the King and Queen are threatened, Rin ends up going on the adventure of a lifetime. And I can't tell you anything more about that without ruining the story.

But in the end, it's safe to say Rin has figured out a little more of who she is. She starts to talk. She confides in the Queen who helps her come to terms with what's happened in her life. And slowly, people start to get to know the real Rin.

I read the entire book last night. I freaked out because Rin is so much like me. The way she thinks, her fears, her challenges, her joys, even what she finds comfort in, are exactly like me. And come on. She takes care of a two year old little boy who she calls "little man." She also happens to desperately want to be close with that little man's mother. (What?!)

Books like this are the best, but also the worst. They're the best because you are completely captivated by the story. They;re the worst because in the process you learn more about yourself then you would have ever anticipated going into the story. 

Read these books, friends. You're life will be a little bit sweeter because of it.

Pushing Through

Friends, I want to ask you all for a prayer request.

I am really struggling right now with the fact that I have to be at Trinity. Don't get me wrong- I love being there.. I love my girls. I love that I got to be a RA this summer. But I'm ready to be done. I'm ready to just be able to be home. And knowing that that opportunity won't come between now and the start of the school year is becoming increasingly hard for me.

This weekend I got to spend some time at home. With my whole family (EmK included). And it was amazing. It was amazing just to be surrounded by people who didn't want anything from me other then just for me to be there with them. And I miss that. I feel as though right now everyone that surrounds me at Trinity is constantly looking for me to to do something for them. They don't want to spend time just being together, they are always looking for me for a specific reason....Whether that's to babysit their kids, or to put in a work order, or to plan fun events, or to drive them to the store....I rarely feel right now as though I'm appreciated just for being. At home, that goes away. I can just lay on the couch with my family and be loved. I can sit at the table and play the same card game 20 times and not be considered boring. 

I only have 3 more weeks left as a RA at Trinity. I want to put everything I have into these last 3 weeks and I don't want to fall off now. I want to have that same love and passion for this role as I did in May. I do love my girls.. But right now, I'm just tired. 

So maybe you could all pray that the Lord gives me that love and passion again for this role again. Or that these next 3 weeks go by quickly. Or that my attitude changes.

I'll leave you with this picture. These two are the ones that remind me on a daily basis that I'm making a difference and that I am loved exactly for who I am. That's the precious thing about the way children love- it's so unconditional. It's so special. And I soak it up. I feel the most together when I'm with them, even if they are on occasion, exhausting.

Peace

Earlier this week I was really struggling with the fact that I wasn't working at Elim. I was talking about some of the students there with one of my friends, and while we were talking my heart was aching. I wanted to be there. I still want to be there.

And I also got a little angry. I kept asking why. And it just so happened I was a little angry on a morning where I had to get up and watch Chase at 8am. 

And then it hit me. This is why.

There are three reasons why I'm not working at Eilm this summer.

1) It's simply not what God had because He had

2) Chase and

3) Henessey in his plan for me this summer.

And I realized last night that while it is so hard to not be working with the students I love, I also wouldn't have it any other way. Last night as I was sitting outside at the picnic table, in the cold, and as I pulled Chase close and as he threw his arms around my neck, I was overwhelmed with a sense of peace that only comes in those times when the beauty of the moment is so incredibly overwhelming and when God's presence is so close that you can't help but feel at peace.

God didn't have me working at Elim this summer. But that doesn't mean that God isn't using me. I wanted Him to use me in the lives of children with special needs and I wanted Him to use me to make a difference in the life of a child. And He is still doing that- just not in the way I was expecting.

Chase is a huge part of my life. There's no denying that. Besides his own parents, I'm not sure there is any human being on the planet who could love that little boy any more then I do. And by loving him and caring for him, I am making a difference in his life.

Henessey is a beautiful little girl who desperately needed someone to come and love her. She needed some stability. She needed someone who could love her and play with her and give her the attention she desires. By being someone Henessey can trust and count on, I am making a difference in her life.

Maybe I'm not where I thought I was going to be this summer. Maybe I'm not doing what I wanted to do.

But I am where God wants me. And I wouldn't have it any other way. 

Finding Happiness

This week, I've purposefully gone looking for happiness. 

I've found happiness in walks with dear friends....

In beautiful Michigan sunsets...

In hammocks that now hang on our porch and offer the perfect opportunity to read in the sun....or take a nap.

I've found happiness in card games with this kid....

and in taking him college shopping.

I've found happiness by watching other peoples' joy....especially his joy. Because it's so unbelievably contagious. 

I've found happiness in playing games with old friends...

and in the beauty of a friend who is more like family. 

I've found happiness in a brother who never fails to make me laugh-- who never fails to challenge me-- and who never fails to love me despite the fact that I can be a real piece of work (on occasion). 

Happiness is everywhere. 

What's been making you happy this week? Go looking for happiness. In looking, you often find you are far more blessed then you realize.